Pondering this today…

“Things which matter most must never be at the mercy of things which matter least.”
-Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

What matters most to you today?

Are you willing to let the small things go so that you can focus on what is most important?

Is theology for women too?

Theology.

The study of God.

Is theology just a topic reserved for men? For men who are attending Seminary? Men who hope to go into full-time ministry? Men who are faithfully preaching from the pulpit each week?

Or is knowing God and studying His nature and character something that all Christians, man or woman, seminarian or not, should be devoting themselves to? Passionate about?

As a seminary wife, I ask myself, is theology a subject that is reserved for my husband?

The answer: No!

Theology is not just for certain people.

Read this beautiful truth from the book Practical Theology for Women (written by Wendy Alsup, pg. 26, my emphasis),

“If you know Christ as your Savior, you have the same Holy Spirit residing in your heart, the same Word of God at your fingertips, and the same access to the presence of God as the wisest and most godly spiritual leader you know of today. It’s a copout to leave the deep things of God to the pastors and seminary graduates when, in Christ, we have the same access to God that they do.

Women, we need to realize that we are limiting our potential to further God’s kingdom when we limit our knowledge of the Creator and Lord of the universe!

What we believe about God and His character affects our daily life. Knowing God makes a difference in our lives. Our beliefs affect how we respond to the situations we are placed in throughout our day. How can we approach our circumstances and situations with a biblical worldview if we are not continually growing in our knowledge and passion for knowing who God is?

To live wisely in today’s world, we need to know God! We need to know who He is and what He has done. We also need to know what He is doing and what He is going to do!

Today’s world is unstable and quickly fading. We must know the truths of God and put them into practice day to day! Read what John Piper says about the Christian woman in reference to 1 Peter 3:1-7,

She knows her Bible, and she knows her theology of the sovereignty of God, and she knows his promise that he will be with her and help her strengthen her no matter what. This is the deep, unshakable root of Christian womanhood. And Peter makes it explicit in verse 5. He is not talking about just any women. He is talking about women with unshakable biblical roots in the sovereign goodness of God—holy women who hope in God.

To be holy women we must place our hope in God! To place our hope in God, we must know who He is! To place our hope in God, even in the face of trials and sufferings, we must know and live out our beliefs daily in every aspect of our life.

To live in this life as a Christian woman, I need to know theology.

As a homemaker, I take the responsibility of creating a place of refuge and security very seriously. I take on frequent opportunities to open our home to extended family and strangers alike. I want them to find love in our home. I want to give them comfort and rest. I want to serve them.

It is easy to be overwhelmed and weary by the, sometimes, mundane tasks of managing a home. However, we are building centers of evangelism, each one of us! We are creating, within our four walls, a place where our family and outsiders can come to find refreshment and nourishment and love!

How can I truly love others, through my home, if I don’t know the depths of the love that God has for me?

As a future parent, I have a great responsibility to train up my children and teach them the things of God. As parents, we have the unique opportunity to show our children what it looks like to live out your faith day by day, in public and private. Are you showing them daily that God is faithful? That God provides? That God is worthy of our trust?

When I am blessed with children, I want to raise them to know God. How can I teach them about who God is, if I, myself, do not know Him? How do I teach someone about what is means to be justified by faith alone, if I do not understand what that means? How do I show my children these truths if I do not live them out daily?

How can we teach our children the things of God if we do not know them ourselves?

As a wife, I am a partner in life with my husband and together we help each other to grow in godliness. I love the question that Gary Thomas poses about marriage, “What if God designed marriage to make us holy instead of happy?” What does this look like in real life?

When you and your husband are in the midst of an argument, are you quick to become bitter and harbor feelings of anger and resentment? Do you struggling with showing your husband respect, in public or private? Do you trust in your husband and more importantly, trust that God will guide him and direct him to lead you and your family?

How can we truly trust our husbands unless we truly trust God and know that His plans are for our ultimate good?

As a woman, when I am struggling with the aches and pains of this world, I can take comfort in knowing that God is my portion and my strength. It’s a difficult balance. It is facing the reality of suffering and struggles with your eyes focused on eternity. It means realizing that this world leaves us thirsting for more, thirsting for Him, thirsting for eternity.

This world is not our home. We are sojourners here. We have a day to look forward to when we will see Jesus face to face. One day, we will take our last breath here in this tainted world and our next breath will be our first breath in the presence of our Lord.

How can we keep our eyes on eternity if we don’t know the wonderful promises that God has given to us about our future glory?

Knowing God is important for all Christians.

Not only are we wives, mothers, homemakers…we are also theologians!

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I’ve Been Doing Something…

and it’s allowed me to be…

more happy.

less stressed.

hanging out with the hubster (lol..my husband).

keeping my house clean.

starting my day in the Word.

planning and dreaming with a couple of friends.

building community.

So, you wanna know what that something is that I’ve been doing?

It’s really not a secret.

I’ve been reordering my life!

It all started one night at my SWI class. The topic was time management. I knew that I wasn’t doing well with this, but oh boy! I didn’t realize how badly I had let my priorities get out of order. I was focusing on things that weren’t important and letting the important things slip to the side, left undone.

During class, I had my eyes opened. God used Mrs. Jodi Ware to speak to my heart and let me see where I was falling short.

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Instead of thinking how am I going to use my time. I needed to start thinking more like how does God want me to use my time.

Since then I have been fighting idleness, ordering my priorities, developing habits, and setting goals{I’ve shared each step on At the Well for our weekly projects}

Guess What?

I have noticed BIG differences! As you can tell from above, many of the things I want out of life, I have been getting! Even some things that I have been wanting to do (like dreaming…).

Once I started to prayerfully consider my current roles in life and what my priorities are within those roles. I started planning habits that reflected those priorities and roles.

Doing these tasks, I have noticed the major change has been in my heart and mind.

Now I am not living aimlessly thorough life, I am on the journey of living intentionally!

Intentionality is a mindset, it doesn’t come naturally. We must cultivate this spirit in our minds and heart. We must decide not to let the world or the demands that come in front of us control our life. Instead we control our life by the leading of the Spirit and by our ordering our life by our priorities.

I am still learning, but I already see the fruit of my labor.

Thoughts While Sweeping My Walls…

We live on the first floor of an old house…like really old!

I always wanted to live in an old house. This house has changed my mind. I didn’t realize how hard it is to keep an old house clean. I find dust all over the place, constantly! As soon as I am done cleaning, it seems there is dust again!

I am constantly finding dust all over my walls. The problem is that we live in an old house (remember?). Guess what? Our walls are really tall. So, you know how I clean the walls? With my broom!

Yep, you read that right. I sweep my walls.

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It takes a lot of work to keep the walls (let alone everything else) clean.

Last week as I was sweeping my walls, I started thinking about how my heart is a lot like this cleaning task.

The walls inside my heart get dirty too…

a disrespectful tone with my husband that turns into a habit

making other things a higher priority than spending time in the Word

being judgmental when I need to instead show compassion

I am constantly trying to “clean” my heart, rid it of sin, sweep it out!

It is hard work keeping this heart clean, trying to live a life with a higher purpose, an eternal aim.

Sin grows in my heart so easily. It starts forming before I even take notice.

I need to sweep out my heart as often as I sweep these walls in my old house!

Have you swept out your heart lately?

Thoughts From a Recovering Worried Woman

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I used to worry. A lot.

When something would happen that would remind me of the unstable nature of this world we live in, the first thing I would do is start to worry.

My mind would begin playing out several worst-case scenarios. Then before I knew it, I couldn’t concentrate on anything other than my worried thoughts!

This happened a lot as a newlywed. I was constantly worried that something was going to happen to my husband.

If we wasn’t home when he said he was going to be, I would (of course) be worried that he was involved in a fatal car crash.

When he went to work as a security officer, I would worry about his safety as soon as he left the door. I wouldn’t feel comfortable again until he was home.

When someone would call me and say that they needed to tell me something, my mind would begin racing with all the horrible, terrible things that they could tell me.

That is too much worry!!!

Read the rest of this post over at The Army Chaps Wife!